This blog charts my and my partner’s attempt to open up our relationship.

We’ve been together for almost five years and the majority of that has been monogamous (though not entirely – more on that to follow) but we have recently decided that we want and need to change this.

I thought it would be helpful to me, and interesting to other people, to write about it as it goes.

Please comment, it always good to hear others’ thoughts, especially when expressed politely.